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Dungeons have rules. Here is ours.
If you break our rules, you don't get a spanking or a delicious punishment. You get asked to leave.Follow these rules and thou shalt come to no harm:First and foremost.
• No means No! Play only involves consensual acts.• All individuals playing in the Dungeon must first sign a waiver.• No alcohol inside the Dungeon.• Absolutely no sexual acts or any type of penetrative play are permitted.• Genitals must be covered at all times (this includes nipples, ladies. Sorry, that's BC law in places serving alcohol).• All SM play must take place inside the dungeon. SM means sadism and masochism. “Literally translated, those terms mean taking pleasure in inflicting pain and taking pleasure in experiencing pain,”• The house safeword is “PLAYHOUSE” (used to halt play when necessary). If you’ll be using a gag in a scene a visual safeword MUST be established first with Dungeon Staff.• No edge play of any sort is permitted. This includes electrical play, single tails, fire play, take down scenes, play piercing and more. (If you believe your scene even might be edge play please check with Dungeon Staff.)• Violet wand play is permitted, but only below the neck.• Anyone requiring first aid should immediately see Dungeon Staff.• Please have a spotter if you're using the suspension hardpoint.• If you’re unsure how to use a piece of equipment, ask for assistance from Dungeon Staff.• Do not move any piece of equipment without first asking Dungeon Staff.• The house is NOT responsible for lost or stolen articles.
Dungeon Etiquette Pt.1First time at Kimmie's Playhouse?
Read about proper etiquette below.What is BDSM? The definition of the term is bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism.
Fetish dungeons are a fun place for people with a kinky nature to let lose and enjoy playing, watching others play, and mingling.
Kimmie's Playhouse allows open ERP, but only with consent. Here are some dos and don'ts:Do:Watch a scene. Feel free to emote how you watch and get into it.Don't:Insert yourself into a scene without consent. Do not disrupt a scene. Do not talk to people that are running a scene. These people are having an intimate moment together and you are being privileged enough to watch. Keep your hands to yourself.Do:Mingle and meet people. Want to play? Chat with people and see if anyone would like to! Consent is key! Our upstairs lounge is perfect for pre-scene planning.Don't:Start hitting on someone or interacting with someone without consent. Do not assume that everyone will want to play with you.Do:Check-in with the DM when you want to run a scene. All people that are going to participate in a scene must verbally give consent to the DM before beginning and must agree to the rules of the dungeon.Don't:Start a scene without giving prior consent to the DM. Do not break the rules! If someone calls RED during a scene, all activity must stop immediately.Do:Play safe and have fun! Most kinks welcome. Utilize the "furniture" if it's available!Don't:Taboo kinks such as bestiality, incest, CNC, etc must be kept to private party chat. Do not publicly RP this type of content in the venue.
Dungeon Etiquette Pt.2No means no. Anything short of an enthusiastic yes means no.Nothing is more important than consent, whether it’s regarding a person’s body or their belongings! Safewords are essential in a public dungeon. Consent is essential as well. We do not want to confuse a bottom saying “no, no, no” in a scene in reaction to pain as revoking consent, unless the those involved chose to use those words as safewords. It is common for you to hear all sorts of comments and language from a bottom. So for clarity, typically we use the stoplight color system. Green means good to go/all is well; Yellow means there is something wrong or I need a moment, and you stop for a moment and discuss the issues; Red is an all stop word. If you play beyond red, we will stop your scene. Red is NO. Red is “I need to stop, I’ve reached my limit.”Aftercare can be generally put into two categories:
physical and emotional. Physical aftercare includes things such as helping remove any paraphernalia like restraints or blindfolds, getting your partner something to eat or drink (blood sugar levels can be important to pay attention to), providing a blanket or warm clothing, kissing or caressing any part of their body, or specifically to area that may have been marked during play, or providing affection and comfort in a quiet place. An intimate massage can be a great way to connect with your partner while offering a comforting touch, and a warm massage oil can sooth both your muscles, and the skin if you were engaging in impact play. A bath or shower is also great; it serves a practical clean up purpose as well as letting you both share an intimate and relaxing moment!Emotional aftercare involves discussing the scene and how you both felt about it, good and bad, which is integral for ensuring that you both understand each other’s needs and expectations from play. You also may want to give your partner assurances about their kink, reminding them that nothing they did or enjoyed makes them ‘weird’ or ‘perverse.’ Making a conscious point to continue this conversation after a couple days also makes sure you’re both aware of any negative feelings that have lingered, and can also serve to make you excited about the next time.Don’t make assumptions about anyone or anything. Always ask. It’s easy to be new and assume that what you saw on TV, in a movie or online is accurate. It’s not. And although some of it may be similar, BDSM is unique to each and every person who participates.Don’t enter a scene or talk to anyone in a scene without permission. Those who are engaged in a “scene” are connecting with each other. They are building an experience and “head space” that is core to what it is that we do (WIITWD). It’s okay to observe quietly from a distance, but getting too close, asking questions, or interrupting a scene in progress will break their head space and may cause a negative experience. You also won’t make any friends that way. Most of our members are happy to explain a scene or a particular object that they used, but please be respectful and hold any questions until after they complete aftercare and return to the social area or kitchen.Be quiet around active scenes. Nothing disrupts a scene like random conversations outside the room or station they are using. And nothing is more jarring than losing the head space you have built together because people are too loud. Please move your discussions to the social area or kitchen. And please remember the kitchen is also a quiet zone, so if your conversation is loud, the noise may carry to the rooms.If it’s not yours, don’t touch. This goes for people and their toys. Not everyone likes to be touched. People make mistakes and don’t always know when it is appropriate to touch. Err on the side of caution and ask first. For instance, “May I hug you goodbye?” allows the person to give (or deny) consent. Do not touch someone else’s gear, toys, or equipment without asking for permission first.Unwanted harassment or following someone around without their permission is not okay. This is called “Puppy Dogging”, and is not okay. An example would be if you went an event and find that you are attracted or intrigued by someone and you follow them around until you get the nerve to talk to them, and perhaps ask to play. If that person says no and is not interested, leave them be. No means no. It is creepy behavior to follow people around, to not take no for an answer and to disregard the consent of others.
If all else fails, try to behave by these rules, with a few relevant edits in bold:These are the things I learned (in Kindergarten):
Share everything. (Don’t create drama)
Play fair. (Consent is key)
Don’t hit people. (Only with their consent)
Put things back where you found them. (Clean up after your scenes)
CLEAN UP YOUR OWN MESS. (Be a grown up)
Don’t take things that aren’t yours. (People, things, etc.)
Say you’re SORRY when you HURT somebody. (Own up to mistakes, talk and try to remedy the situation)
Wash your hands before you eat. (Germs are gross)
Flush.
Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. (We have lots of treats for before or after a scene, or just because they are amazing)
Live a balanced life – learn some and drink some and draw some and paint some and sing and dance and play and work everyday some. (Newbie Frenzy is real. Try to balance doing all-of-the-things with some patience. Don’t rush.)
Take a nap every afternoon.
When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and stick together. (Community is important, keep who you see, what you see and who you know in confidence. Outing is a serious offense, malicious or not. We are your kinky family.)
Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the styrofoam cup: The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that. (Take a moment to process all that is amazing and good in the lifestyle. Know yourself before you invite others to know you.)